From a classic Magic Wand to you wearing nothing but a big red bow, an intimate gift is as personal as it gets. Intimate items practically have their own holiday on Valentine's Day, but make great presents no matter what the occasion. 

No longer taboo, intimate gifts like sex toys have gone unabashedly mainstream, and are now common choices for Christmas, birthdays, anniversaries, bachelor and bachelorette parties, or any fun event among close friends.

Two other benefits of intimate gifts? They can be purchased online and are delivered in discreet packaging, so nosy neighbors or roommates will be none the wiser. 

If you’re not sure what kind of sex toys to buy (or for whom!), read on. This guide covers everything you need to know about giving the gift of pleasure, including the best wands, bullet vibrators, toys for men, and more. 

How To Gift Sex Toys 

Before you begin shopping for all the nice and naughty people on your list, consider who you’re buying for. Are they single or partnered? Would they like a toy with a lot of features and settings, or something that's simple and intuitive to operate? 

When it comes to sex toys, the more you know about the person you’re buying for and their preferences, the better. 

Sex toys make great gifts for:

• Boyfriends
• Girlfriends
• Spouses
• Best friends
• Anyone in your life who appreciates a little intimate self-care
• And of course, yourself

If you want to buy for your partner but aren't sure what they might like, that’s great, too. Sex toy shopping together can be a sexy, intimacy-building experience, and is a fantastic opportunity to learn what your partner is eager to try. 

If you’re not comfortable picking out a specific sex toy, a gift card does the trick every time.

For more ideas for toys to use with a partner, check out Best Sex Toys For Intercourse

What’s their experience level?

Whether you're shopping for a sex toy newcomer or an aficionado, a high quality toy with crowd-pleasing features can be a great pick. For clitoral stimulation, a bullet vibrator, air pressure toy (AKA a suction toy), or vibrating wand are always good bets. For penis stimulation, a stroker can take solo sessions to new heights and are fun for partnered play, too. 

When browsing for the more experienced folks on your shopping list, consider creative toys like interactive, wearable products or toys with unique features like warming functions or multiple stimulation options. 

Without further ado, here are our top gifting picks for beginners and experts alike. 

Best Bullet Vibrators for Gifting

We-Vibe Tango X With its sleek, red body and rumbly vibes, the Tango X from We-Vibe is the perfect giftable bullet. This discreet, quiet toy is about the size of a lipstick and packs a very pleasurable punch. 

Dame Zee This bright and buzzy vibe is stylish and easy on the wallet, making it the ultimate stocking-stuffer. The Zee is also rechargeable, quiet, and perfect for travel.

Le Wand Chrome Bullet Looking for a luxury toy without a luxury price tag? The Le Wand Chrome Bullet is pretty, powerful, and comes in four luscious colors for a little holiday bling. 

Femme Funn Booster Bullet Our desert island bullet may just be this beauty from Femme Funn. Made from smooth, waterproof silicone, this petite powerhouse has a flexible body, making it perfect for intercourse. The vibrations are surprisingly deep and rumbly for a toy this size and the price is moderate, too. 

For all the details about this toy, check out our full Femme Funn Booster Bullet review

Best Vibrating Wands for Gifting 

Femme Funn Ultra Wand Easy to use and gorgeous to behold, this wand is a fantastic gift for all experience levels. The Ultra Wand is completely cloaked in textured premium silicone, making it fully waterproof and easy to clean. 

Fun Factory VIM It's hard to top the VIM when it comes to both beauty and pleasure. Available in deep blue or bright orange, the VIM is lightweight with a flexible neck ideal for just about any position. Its deep, low-frequency motor penetrates the clitoral network for whole-body orgasms, while its long handle puts every sensitive area within reach.  

Magic Wand Mini The Magic Wand Mini is almost as powerful as its full-sized predecessor, easier to hold, and great for travel. If you're looking for a sensual stocking stuffer that won't break the bank, the Mini is a great choice. 

Looking for more budget-friendly gift ideas? Check out our 60 under $60 collection

Best Penis Toys for Gifting

Snail Vibe Evo The Evo's unique shape and rolling technology make it one of our most popular strokers. Made from body-safe silicone and powered by two rumbly motors, the Evo is sure to please any penis-owner on your list. 

Tenga Flip Zero Series These ultra-popular strokers feature intricate, densely-packed texture for intense stimulation and a flip-open case for easy cleaning and drying. 

Fun Factory Manta With its open construction, ribbed texture, and deep, penetratng vibration, the Fun Factory Manta is perfect for any size anatomy. It's versatile design makes it great for stimulating the testicles, nipples, and just about any sensitive spot. 

Rocks Off Rush Just turn on the vibes, wrap your hand around this toy, and stroke. The Rush is made from textured body-safe silicone and is ergonomically designed for a customizable fit. 

Best Air Pressure Toys for Gifting

Womanizer Next Nothing says "your pleasure is important to me" like the Womanizer Next. This luxury air pressure toy feels as close to oral sex as it gets and features 14 blissful intensity settings, from gentle to eye-poppingly intense.   

Biird Lumii Biird is known for their gift-worthy packaging, and the Lumii doesn't disappoint. With a silvery storage case and beautifully decorated box, this air pressure toy is a feast for the eyes as well as the body. The Lumii is also fully waterproof and an excellent value. 

Lelo Sona 2 This compact powerhouse is a great choice for supercharged clitoral stimulation. Made from super-smooth silicone, this award-winning toy is well-known for exceptional stimulation and a moderate price tag.  

Find out all the details about the Lelo Sona 2 in our complete video review

Best App-controlled Toys for Gifting

We-Vibe Chorus This couple's vibrator stimulates both partners during intercourse and is operated via remote or phone app. The We-Vibe app features a plethora of vibration patterns and intensities, and allows you to create custom sensations for a personalized experience.

Lovense Domi 2 The Domi 2 is an app-controlled wand that can be controlled from anywhere in the world. The Lovense app offers a huge variety of settings, and even lets you sync the Domi 2 to music on your phone. This bestselling wand is also super rumbly, lightweight, and runs up to 6 hours on a single charge. 

We-Vibe Melt This toy not only delivers the nerve-penetrating pleasure of air pressure, it can be controlled by the We-Vibe phone app from anywhere. Perfect for long-distance partners, the Melt has a slim shape that makes it great for intercourse as well as solo play.  

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Best Sets for Gifting

We-Vibe Date Night Set If you have a favorite couple, gift them this Date Night set. It includes his & hers vibrating toys — both of which are app-controlled — all wrapped up in festive green packaging.

b-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set If the person on your list is interested in anal pleasure, then the Anal Massage Set could be a guaranteed hit. This set includes everything you need for some old-fashioned backdoor fun, including a b-Vibe Snug Plug 2 and a Le Wand Petite Vibrator. We love it for solo sessions, too. 

Lelo Indulge Me Pleasure Set This intimate set combines three gifts in one kit: a silky blindfold, feather teaser, and Lelo’s most popular couple’s toy, the Noa. The packaging is not only giftable, it’s sturdy and reusable too!

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Best Wearable Vibrators for Gifting

Lovense Ferri This hands-free panty vibrator brings plenty of rumbly stimulation to the game. Made from silky-smooth silicone that feels fantastic to the touch, this app-controlled panty vibe lasts up to 3.5 hours on a full charge. 

We-Vibe Jive Lite This lightweight wearable toy focuses on the G-spot, making it ideal for those who prefer internal stimulation. It features over 10 preset vibration modes, plus the option to customize your own vibes with the We-Vibe phone app. 

We-Vibe Moxie This wearable vibe is quiet, powerful, and stays securely in place with a slim magnetic panty clip. Perfect for date night, the Moxie can be operated with the We-Vibe app or hand-held remote.

For more, check out our We-Vibe Moxie review

Best Toys to Gift Yourself

Lovense Gush The aptly-named Gush provides textured stimulation and hands-free penis stroking. The Gush is fully adjustable and app-controlled, making it a fantastic interactive toy for solo play.

Le Wand Petite All That Glitters Vibrator  Le Wand makes some of the most beautiful sex toys you can find and the All That Glitters Vibrator is no exception. Gift this rumbly vibrating wand is  for pleasure-seekers who love to treat themselves with a little razzle-dazzle.  

Njoy Fun Wand This gleaming stainless steel beauty comes packaged in a pink, satin-lined box that's perfect for gifting to yourself. Its hard material and curved design offer very pleasurable G or P-spot stimulation, making it a great gift for all genders.

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